How it works
Three simple steps — you set the pace.
1
Create profile
Build a private profile in under a minute. You choose what you share.
2
Post a contact ad
Describe what you're looking for — clearly, respectfully and on your terms.
3
Choose who to talk to
Full control over who can reach out, and when.
How Xiqora works
From first click to first chat — on your terms.
1. Create a discreet alias
No real name required. Pick an alias, interests and what you're looking for — in under 2 minutes.
2. Verify you're an adult
Quick and discreet 18+ verification. Your ID data is not stored longer than necessary.
3. Get matches based on chemistry
Our matching weighs boundaries, pace and interests — not just photos.
4. Chat when it feels right
You decide who can write and what you share. No public feeds.